Monday, May 27, 2019

My Heroes

My husband, Dean Diehl
This Memorial Day I took the time to look up pictures of both my husband and my father in their Service uniforms.

My father (Jim) James Johnson
My father was in the US Army Air Corps stationed somewhere in the California desert. His term of service was 1942-1945. By the time I was old enough to be curious about what he did in the war, all he would way was that his job was to teach fighter pilots how to use radar. 

My husband was in the US Army stationed in Ft. Campbell, KY (I think this is correct, but I had not met him yet at that point:) He service term was 1963-65 and he was the company clerk. He, too, said very little about what he did, other than to remark that as he was getting ready to be mustered out having served his three year stint, he was typing up orders for his company buddies to go to Vietnam. I feel sure that he dealt with a mixed bag of emotions regarding that.

Here's a huge thank you to all those who have served in our country's defense as well as in the defense of life in other countries.

Tuesday, May 14, 2019

What Happened to That Dress?


The dress pictured here was worn by my Grandmother Triplett 100 years ago to say “I do” to her true love, Harvey. I have Grandma’s dress adorning a dressmaker’s form standing in my living room. And thereby hangs an incredible tale. 


When we were little kids (my brother, cousins and I), we used to dress up at Grandpa and Grandma’s house. She had a chest of old clothes and shoes that we were free to play with and I remember seeing shoes with many buttons, so different from our shoes having laces or buckles. I even remember a pair of soft white leather shoes with many buttons—her wedding shoes. But there was no wedding dress to go with the shoes.

Grandma died in a car crash and my mother occasionally spoke of her mother’s wedding dress because it had apparently disappeared. She said Grandma had sewn tiny seed pearls around the neckline as decoration and her description made me think of a fairyland creation. Like the fairyland of our childhood, the dress seemed to have disappeared off the face of the earth.

Flash forward to August 2001. My dad had died and mom was moving  into senior housing, but she needed to have a sale of farming equipment and the contents of barns, outbuildings, and the farmhouse. My brother and niece had spent several weekends working on cleaning out the accumulation of 50 years of country living, but there was still plenty to do when I flew back to the Midwest a week before the sale. The day before the sale we were still going through boxes, sorting and tossing.

I was working my way through the back entry between the garage and back door where an old trunk had sat since my Aunt Anna died back in the mid-80’s. I opened it up to find it mostly empty except for a few vintage hats. However, a small shelf attached to the lid still held some detritus which looked like it should head for a trash bag. By this time, I’d learned never to do a wholesale dumping of "stuff" because currency, old pictures, and other priceless memorabilia could well be mixed in with useless receipts from 25 years ago

I started gingerly pulling out a yellowed plastic bag. When I opened it, there were several beautiful little girl’s dresses for perhaps a two year old. I knew they weren’t mine so I guessed they were surely my mom’s or her sister’s from back in the 20’s.

There was another yucky plastic bag in the open shelf so I picked it up and opened it. I pulled out a lovely piece of satin fabric—decorated with seed pearls—and the hair rose on the back of my neck. Could this be Grandma’s “lost” wedding dress?

Out came a long skirt with three rows of ruffles, evenly spaced. The last item was a long sleeved blouse with a square neck also decorated with seed pearls. The first item that had emerged was like a decorative vest so the wedding “dress” was an ethereal three-piece ensemble.  


Mom verified that, indeed, it was her mother’s wedding dress but she didn’t remember anything about the little girls’ dresses, guessing that they were hers as a tiny child. It was agreed that I could take the wedding dress home with me since my brother’s family never knew Grandma Triplett and my mom had no place to display the dress. I folded it and the little dresses and put them in a corner out of the way.

Sale day arrived and the helping hands of friends joined us in getting all the indoor “treasure” outside for the auction as the weather had threatened rain the night before. After lunch I was visiting with a cousin of my mom’s generation and mentioned Grandma’s wedding dress. She, of course, had never seen it so I went in the house to get it. But the corner was empty!

Apparently the helpful hands had carried the dresses (the little girl’s dresses were gone too) out to be sold. Grandma’s wedding dress was gone again. And this time there was no doubt in my mind, it was gone forever.

The sale over, we all went home and I was recounting the sad tale of the vanished wedding dress to my friend, Jackie. “Why don’t you advertise for it?” she asked. That thought hadn’t even grazed my mind so I thanked her for the idea and called Mom that evening. She, in turn, advertised in two county papers and the daily just across the river in Illinois.

Three days later Mom got a phone call from a lady who said, “I think I have something you’ve been looking for.” Mom had taught elementary school for sixteen years and one of her students was the caller’s son. He had come to the sale and bid on a box of doilies, aprons, and other items, which, it turns out, included Grandma’s wedding dress. The lady was planning to take the items to a flea market that weekend but when she read Mom’s ad in the paper, she felt compelled to return the dress.

And that’s how Grandma’s wedding dress finally made its way from Palmyra, MO to Elko, NV

She and Grandpa were married on May 14, 1919 the day before her 25th birthday and probably 2-4 weeks after her school term was finished as she taught in a rural school for at least five years prior to her marriage. 
The newlywed 100 years ago, today

Saturday, April 20, 2019

57 Years

This post is actually a travelogue but fifty-seven does enter into it. The last eleven days of March began our Great Adventure as my son, Brian, had agreed to take me on a road trip to Apalachicola, FL—by way of Ft. Worth so we could pick up his brother,Jeff.

 As I worked on planning the itinerary earlier in March, the boys began adding points of interest they wanted to include to and from Florida since our goal before we arrived back in Elko was to celebrate Aunt Dorothy’s 92nd birthday in Tucson.

Brian wanted to see Four Corners, where Utah, Colorado, New Mexico, and Arizona meet and we traveled through Moab, UT to get there  
An arch at Moab, UT

Shiprock, NM

Further along the trip, he wanted to experience New Orleans. Unfortunately, that experience did not include a beignet and coffee but a creeping pace around the French Quarter. (I hope he can go back and actually enjoy New Orleans someday).

French Quarter--cheek by jowl


We arrived at our friends’ home in FL and enjoyed wonderful visiting time (we hadn’t seen each other in 35 years) and awesome food cooked by my friend, Sara. Her menus included fresh (meaning it was in its watery home just the night before) shrimp and red snapper. I would not want to have to rate the food against the renewing of old ties as it was all such an awesome time. 



Brian wanted to get a picture of the sun setting on the water so Sara took us to the beach and I decided to get my feet wet. It so happens that I don’t like to be in water deeper than a bathtub so you can imagine how I cut off the circulation in Brian’s hand the first time the tide came onto the beach—and my feet. The sight of that wave of water coming at me as well as the unfamiliar sound, truly was an eerie experience, but one repeated several times. I marveled at the way the water surged in and then out, leaving an expanse of sand as smooth as glass. To add to the special experience, a lone sandpiper walked down the beach in front of us (we were sitting on lawn chairs by this time), checking for edibles. He obviously was not afraid of people because it wasn’t long before he walked back from the other direction. He didn’t return again so I guess he filled his tummy or decided another location would be more fruitful.

The tide and Pat's feet

During our conversation I realized that I’d been fairly close to this part of Florida before—fifty-seven years ago my high school senior trip had Pensacola Beach as one of its destinations. Turns out I had never been back to a beach on the Gulf since then, so everyone agreed that it was high time I had returned. After all, everyone should dabble their feet in (sort of) the Atlantic Ocean at least twice in fifty-seven years.

My beach experience led me to try my hand at writing some haiku which is a three-line poem made up of five, then seven, then five syllables. (They are separate thoughts.)

Beach Haikus

Tide rolls in, rumbling
Smoothing sand like a mirror
Sandpiper distorts


As tide smoothes the sand
Man ponders troublesome life
Seeking that smoothness

Our return west to Tucson took nearly four days crossing bits of Alabama and Mississippi, the length of Louisiana and Texas and of course including New Mexico and Arizona. We walked a portion of the River Walk and saw the Alamo in San Antonio 
Bridge over River Walk
Muddy Boots visits the Alamo


We travelled on through TX and visited a quasi-Prada store outside of Marfa as well as  “experiencing” several trios of concrete "boxes without topses" on an acreage outside of that same town. 
Quasi-Prada outside of Marfa
Would you believe, their inventory





Fourteen sets of these!!!!
Bisbee, AZ was our last out of the way visit where we saw a very large copper mine pit (not as big as Newmont’s gold mine pit) as well as a unique RV Park consisting of Airstream and Spartan trailers and even a yacht that had been “beached” all for rent as motel lodging. 
Old Bisbee copper mine
RV Park where the vehicles don't roll
Over the mountain was Tombstone but we didn’t get in on the gunfight at the OK Corral.  We did, however, take a selfie in front of the Tombstone Epitaph (which has disappeared from my picture file).

Happy to say, Aunt Dorothy had a nice birthday celebration, Jeff flew home (by the hardest) and we arrived back in Elko after two weeks absence.  
Happy birthday, Aunt Dorothy

Aside from the wonderful visits with friends and relatives  and the good food we ate, Jeff said his favorite experience was climbing the lighthouse on St. George Island (which has had a hard life of being moved more than once, falling into the gulf and being put together again, better than Humpty Dumpty). 

  My favorite was the second time in fifty-seven years experience with the Gulf-Atlantic Ocean.  However, I don't want to leave out our friends and relatives, the Rundletts, Cousin Kate and ending with our favorite B and B hostess in Las Vegas.
My sweet friend, Nancy
As for Brian, it was probably all the great pictures he took, but also the realization that he had driven almost 5555 miles in two weeks into or across nine states and crossed three time zones—twice!




Sunday, February 3, 2019

Perspective


Last week as we were driving home from Salt Lake City an interesting subject regarding the idea of perspective presented itself. To set the scene, the weather was beautifully clear as we left Wendover heading for the Pequops. Eventually, off to our right stood Pilot Peak, appearing in, seemingly, solitary splendor, looking like a volcanic sentinel. In fact, during pioneer days, Pilot Peak was a trail landmark, but it was never volcanic.     
Courtesy of Brian Diehl

The light was so perfect that day, my photographer son stopped the car and took a picture. When we were on the road again, he remarked something to the effect, “It’s fascinating how Pilot Peak just looks like another peak in the Peqop Range from the back side.”

Another example of perspective was brought to my attention with the jigsaw puzzle presently spread out on a card table to one side of my kitchen. It’s slightly larger than the table so my older son (the cardboard king) fashioned a cardboard topper so we could safely assemble the puzzle without pieces dropping off the ends of the earth (namely, the card table).

It has been a Christmas tradition for many years to put together a jigsaw puzzle during the holidays and my brother sent us a dilly of a present with this puzzle. When we turned over all 1500 puzzle pieces with their disconcerting hues of brown, green and blue, gray and black, our perspective caused us to be overwhelmed with a tinge of      discouragement at the seeming possibility 

of ever assembling that puzzle.

Now after a month’s time, with the help of several friends, my perspective on The Puzzle has changed. It’s fascinating to see how those different hues of brown, greens, and blues have taken shape to form the total picture. Not that we’re finished, but completion now seems possible.


It’s probably age on my part, but I can see (no pun intended) how perspective can flavor our impressions/reactions to any challenge that comes along in our lives. It seems to be directed by positive or negative attitudes toward the life bumps that raise their as we travel along.

Consider adjusting perspective in a “challenging”--use any adjectives that fit hereJ -- situation. Remember, the “front” side of the mountain looks completely different from the back side, and the pile of puzzle pieces can “morph” into a lovely picture. I like the example of looking at a beautiful piece of embroidery work and comparing it to our lives. When we look at the under side of the handwork, we see a maze of threads running helter-skelter, including plenty of knots. When the piece is turned over, an artistic piece of lovely colors blend to create a pleasing picture.

Using that idea and comparing it to God, the Creator, Who sees through all the knots and hairpin curves in His children’s lives and sees them fit into a beautiful picture at completion of our life, gives me hope for my personal perspective.  Isaiah reminds us that God’s ways and thoughts far surpass ours and Jeremiah encourages us that God has a plan for our lives one of hope and not harm.

So take heart and double check your perspective.

Saturday, January 5, 2019

Avoid That Rut


I have been using my friend Suzi’s book on her journey through grief as my devotional guide the past few months. Recently, I read her essay about  paths and ruts which, in essence, asked the question, “What are you doing with your life?”

As I read that day, I thought the topic was particularly appropriate  as we enter a new year, and I have found it to be of particular interest to me in this season of life. However, guarding against getting stuck in a rut is something everyone needs to consider and what better time than at the start of a new year.

I read somewhere that a rut (in life) is a coffin open at both ends—or something to that effect. Hence, my advice to self and friends to avoid getting in a rut. Change is generally not a particularly comfortable stage to go through, but it’s necessary in climbing out of a rut and the discomfort definitely lets you know you are alive—as opposed to staying in that rut of complacency.

So as I muse aloud (in print), I ask myself (and you friends), “What are my dreams or aspirations or purpose in life?” No matter how old we might be, as long as we have breath, God does not intend for us to just sit in that comfortable rut. Or maybe it’s not so comfortable but we’re afraid to make the effort to climb out of it.

We have all been gifted in some fashion by God. Are we using that gifting as He intends? If you haven’t a clue about His intentions, try asking Him. He is not shy in letting us know something when we earnestly seek Him.

Suzi’s devotional used the examples of the apostle Paul being led by God’s Spirit to change directions and head for Macedonia and God assuring Jacob  that going to Egypt would result in blessings for his family. That tells us we don’t need to fear that inner nudge to change direction on a path or even to blaze a new one. Just don’t let the path become a rut.

Friday, October 12, 2018

A Single Vowel Makes All the Difference


This story from the Wycliffe Bible Translators was shared with me by friends who minister with that organization. It’s such a beautiful illustration of God’s unconditional love, I felt led to summarize it in this blog post.

Lee Bramlett, a Wycliffe Bible translator, was working with the Hdi culture in Cameroon, searching for God’s “footprint” in the history or daily life of this people group. He was looking for a clue God had left to show the Hdi people who he is and how he wants to relate to them.

One night in a dream God impressed upon Lee to look at the word, ‘love.’ Through his study of the language, Lee knew that almost all Hdi verb forms could end in an i, an a, or u. However, the verb, ‘love,’ never showed the vowel u at the end.

Lee met with the Hdi translation committee and first asked them, “Can you ‘dvi’ (love) your wife?”

Their answer was affirmative saying it meant the wife had been loved but the love was gone.

Next Lee asked, “Could you ‘dva’ your wife?”

“Yes,” the men answered. “That kind of love depends on the wife’s actions. She would be loved as long as she remained faithful and cared for her husband well.”

Then Lee asked, “Could you ‘dvu’ your wife?”

The men laughed. “Of course not,” they said. “If you said that, you would have to keep loving your wife no matter what she did, even if she never got your water, never made your meals. Even if she committed adultery, you would be compelled to just keep on loving her. No, we would never say ‘dvu’.’ It just doesn’t exist.”

The Wycliffe translator sat quietly for a minute or so among the committee of elders. “Could God ‘dvu people?” he asked.

More silence. Then tears began to trickle down the weathered cheeks of the elders. “Do you know what this would mean?” one asked. “This would mean that God kept loving us over and over, century after century, while all that time we rejected his great love. He is compelled to love us, even though we have sinned more than any people.”

One simple vowel and the meaning was changed from “I love you based on what you do and who you are,” to “I love you based of who I am. I love you because of me and not because of you”

God had encoded the story of his unconditional love right into their language. For centuries, the little word was there—unused but available, grammatically correct and quite understandable. When the word was finally spoken, it called into question their entire belief system.

I wonder how many people in our acquaintance would have their belief system turned upside down if they truly understand God’s unconditional love—impossible to earn, but given so freely.

The wonderful postscript to this story is that the entire New Testament has been translated and printed. Now the 29,000 Hdi speakers can read in Ephesians 5:25, “Husbands, ‘dvu’ your wives just as Christ ‘dvu-d’ the church.”

Friday, August 24, 2018

The Insanity of God


This is actually a book title and because of the unusual use of the word, insanity, I decided to check the book out of my church library. Written by Nik Ripken (not his real name), the book chronicles a journey of faith, despair, and renewed perception.

Nik and his family went to Somalia to try to alleviate the starvation and need after the civil war totally destroyed the infrastructure there. That experience, in itself, was a huge learning experience for the family, but a more bitter life lesson they received came in the form of one of their sons dying from a bizarre physical anomaly.

The family returned to the US, pretty much broken, looking for restoration of hope and a healing of emotional wounds—not just for the loss of their son, but for the persecuted believers they were leaving behind.

After searching for information/help to sustain the persecuted church, Nik was led to visit believers in Russia, Ukraine and other Eastern European countries as the Iron Curtain had recently come down and believers were experiencing freedom that most had not known during their lifetime. He discovered awesome testimonies of God’s power among His people.

Then Nik went to China, where all his meetings had to be held in secret. There he discovered confirmation that—catch this—God is doing today what He had done in the past, in Bible times. People being healed, people being resurrected from the dead, and miraculous provision of everyday needs. (See Joel 2:28-29)

He took part in a secret conference of house group leaders, pastors, and evangelists as they prayed, getting up before the sun rose and praying for their persecuted brothers and sisters in other parts of the world. Nik wrote, “it’s no wonder the Church in China has increased from several hundred thousand to an estimated several hundred million.”

The anecdotal section ends with the story of a young Muslim woman who miraculously came to Christ. She eventually ended up in the US and was visiting the Ripkenns’ church one Sunday when an entire family was being baptized. Nik could tell she was agitated as she watched and he asked her what was wrong. “Why are we all not standing and shouting praises to God,” she asked. “I never thought I would see such a miracle as an entire family being baptized and no one being shot or killed.”

That statement led Nik to realize the “common-day” miracles that he (and we) take for granted:  having your own Bible (those Chinese pastors were grateful to have one Bible with various pages of Scripture handed out to each to preach from until another Bible could be had); sharing the Lord’s Supper/Holy Communion with fellow believers; singing praise songs/hymns out loud. There were more but you get the idea.

Another thing Nik learned was that almost all believers have the choice as to whether to obey Christ (worship with others, share Christ, etc.).However, the choice to obey God in doing so comes at a much higher price in some places than in others, hence what we call persecution.

This book certainly presents “food for thought” and the fact that it is written in excellent storyteller style makes it easy to read—not necessarily easy to act upon. This  book can be purchased at Christianbook.com or if you live in the Elko area, you can check it out of our church library. It is definitely worth reading.